Marrying non-Muslim Women
Question:
What
is your advice concerning some Muslim minorities marrying disbelieving
women who do not believe in the existence of a Creator and what is the
effect of that upon the children?
Response:
My
advice to all Muslims is that they should not marry anyone who is not a
Muslim. A Muslim man should do his utmost to marry a Muslim woman
because that will be good for him, both in the life of this world and in
the Hereafter and good for his children as well. With regards to
marrying kuffaar, if they are not from the People of the Book, the Jews
and Christians, then, according to clear text and consensus of the
scholars, it is forbidden.
According to a consensus of the
scholars, it is not permitted for a Muslim to marry Buddhists,
communists, atheists and so forth. Allaah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says:
{And do not marry idolatresses until they believe.} [Soorah al-Baqarah, Aayah 221]
Concerning
the Settlement of Hudaybiyah, Allaah (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) ordered
that the believing women, who came seeking emigration to the Prophet
(Sal Allaahu alaihe wa sallam) should not be returned to their
disbelieving husbands. He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says:
{They are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them.} [Soorah al-Mumtahinah, Aayah 10]
It
is, therefore, not permitted for a Muslim to ever marry a kaafir woman
unless she is from the People of the Book and they are the Jews and
Christians only. They are considered the People of the Book if they
have remained upon the teachings of their Book. However, if they have
become communists or deny the existence of a Creator, they are no longer
People of the Book, but rather they have become atheists.
If,
however, they are from the People of the Book, adhere to the teachings
of Christianity or Judaism and believe in Allaah and the Resurrection,
then they can be married. This is provided that they are known to be
chaste and it is known that they do not commit adultery or fornication.
Allaah has made lawful for us chaste women from the People of the Book.
He (Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala) says:
{All good things
are made lawful for you this day. The food of the People of the Book is
lawful to you and your food is lawful to them. (Lawful to you in
marriage) are chaste women from the believers and chaste women from
those who were given the Scripture (Jews and Christians) before you,
provided that you give them their dowries and live in honour with them,
neither committing fornication nor taking them as mistresses... } [Soorah al-Maa'idah, Aayah 5]
Allaah
has made lawful for Muslims chaste and virtuous women who are free and
not slaves. There is no harm, therefore, in marrying women from the
People of the Book, if the need arises. However, to refrain from doing
so and to marry Muslim women is preferable and advisable, especially
nowadays.
The risk
involved in marrying them these days is greater because they have
control and power over husbands and might, therefore, lead their
husbands or their children to kufr in Allaah. My advice to all my
brothers everywhere is, that they should not marry non-Muslim women and
that they should be aware of the risks and end result of doing so.
Rather, they should do their utmost to marry Muslim women and to educate
and guide them to what is good. This is safer, especially at this time
when evil and wickedness has increased. The kuffaar have today gained
the upper hand over the Muslims, and women in the countries of the
kuffaar have power and authority and dominate their Muslim husbands and
try to attract them and their children to their false religion.
And there is no power, no strength except with Allaah!
Shaykh Ibn Baaz
al-Aqalliyaat al-Muslimah - Page 29, Fatwa No.5
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Gaining as much beneficial knowledge as I can in this dunya about this beautiful deen of Islam. Not just being careful from whom I take knowledge from, but careful of implementing knowledge that comes to me without proofs, so if you have some naseehah, apply proofs InshaAllaah, other than that....I'm a good listener. I crochet and I try to stay in the home as much as possible. Our blessings are in the home sisters (smiles), I have to remind myself of this as well. May Allaah reward us all in our efforts to please Him, Aameen.
I do not watch TV/Movies or listen to music but don't mind sharing my views on them.
"It is not allowed to take pictures of beings that have souls, a rule the compasses cameras and other instruments, with the exception of pictures that are necessary, such as a passport or identity photo."
- from fatawa islamiyah...and as far as music, from the same trusted source;
"It is not allowed to listen to singing and playing musical instruments, since it diverts the listener from the remembrance of Allaah and from prayer, and because hearing it sickens and hardens the heart. Both the Clear Book of Allaah and the Trustworthy Sunnah His Messenger (SalAllaahu alaihe wa sallam) prove its prohibition. Allaah Almighty says in Surah Luqman ayah 6:
"And of Mankind is he who purchases (Lawd Al-Hadith) idle talk to mislead from the Path of Allaah without knowledge."
The majority of scholars of Tafsir as well as others have explained that Lawd Al- Hadith refers to singing and musical instruments. In his Sahih, Al- Bukhari recorded that the Prophet (SalAllaahu alaihe wa sallam) said: "There will be from my Nation a people who will deem fornication, silk (for men), alcohol, and music to be permissible". [Al-Bukhari no. 5590] We ask Allaah to guide and facilitate all of the Muslims to what is right and to protect us from the causes which anger Him." Aameen.
-Proof taken from Fatawa Islamiyah- Ibn Baz
[My Words].."Some may still argue the fact of "naats" or "nasheeds" to be acceptable, or why can't they be if they speak of nothing but good of the religion, which sounds good but we have to worship Allaah as He has legislated for us to, not to add on or take away even if the adding on appears to be an elevation of worship which is actually an innovation and for every innovation is a going astray and the end result of going astray leads to the hellfire, so just because something sounds good to do regarding the deen doesn't mean that it is good without proving it to be a way that Allaah has legislated for us to worship Him, with AUTHENTIC proofs (Quran and Sunnah) and all of that being borderline and finding loopholes(you think you found) only leaves doubt in your heart and doubt comes from the shaitan who is the greatest enemy to mankind and he sits and waits at every point of our lives for the opportunity to lead us astray. HE IS YOUR ENEMY! Don't help your enemy defeat you by following him! So please be careful of what you do here in this life while passing through to our final abode because in the end all the songs you know, sport stats, movie titles and producers and nonsense; any of these worldly waste of times are not going to save you from the fire because at that time, you are only left with your deeds. So be VERY careful what you do here InshaAllaah.None of us are an exception to falling into these things, May Allaah protect us from falling into these things or anything that displeases Him And May Allaah place and/or keep us on a path that will lead us to Jennah, Aameen."
Allaah, The Exalted, states:
"And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)." (Noble Quran 51:56)
All of that being said, I plan on worshipping Allaah Alone and learning this Deen for the rest of my time passing through this dunya and my advice to you is to help and strive with me InshaAllaah.
May Allaah bless us all with beneficial knowledge, Aameen.
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Gaining as much beneficial knowledge as I can in this dunya about this beautiful deen of Islam. Not just being careful from whom I take knowledge from, but careful of implementing knowledge that comes to me without proofs, so if you have some naseehah, apply proofs InshaAllaah, other than that....I'm a good listener. I crochet and I try to stay in the home as much as possible. Our blessings are in the home sisters (smiles), I have to remind myself of this as well. May Allaah reward us all in our efforts to please Him, Aameen.
I do not watch TV/Movies or listen to music but don't mind sharing my views on them.
"It is not allowed to take pictures of beings that have souls, a rule the compasses cameras and other instruments, with the exception of pictures that are necessary, such as a passport or identity photo."
- from fatawa islamiyah...and as far as music, from the same trusted source;
"It is not allowed to listen to singing and playing musical instruments, since it diverts the listener from the remembrance of Allaah and from prayer, and because hearing it sickens and hardens the heart. Both the Clear Book of Allaah and the Trustworthy Sunnah His Messenger (SalAllaahu alaihe wa sallam) prove its prohibition. Allaah Almighty says in Surah Luqman ayah 6:
"And of Mankind is he who purchases (Lawd Al-Hadith) idle talk to mislead from the Path of Allaah without knowledge."
The majority of scholars of Tafsir as well as others have explained that Lawd Al- Hadith refers to singing and musical instruments. In his Sahih, Al- Bukhari recorded that the Prophet (SalAllaahu alaihe wa sallam) said: "There will be from my Nation a people who will deem fornication, silk (for men), alcohol, and music to be permissible". [Al-Bukhari no. 5590] We ask Allaah to guide and facilitate all of the Muslims to what is right and to protect us from the causes which anger Him." Aameen.
-Proof taken from Fatawa Islamiyah- Ibn Baz
[My Words].."Some may still argue the fact of "naats" or "nasheeds" to be acceptable, or why can't they be if they speak of nothing but good of the religion, which sounds good but we have to worship Allaah as He has legislated for us to, not to add on or take away even if the adding on appears to be an elevation of worship which is actually an innovation and for every innovation is a going astray and the end result of going astray leads to the hellfire, so just because something sounds good to do regarding the deen doesn't mean that it is good without proving it to be a way that Allaah has legislated for us to worship Him, with AUTHENTIC proofs (Quran and Sunnah) and all of that being borderline and finding loopholes(you think you found) only leaves doubt in your heart and doubt comes from the shaitan who is the greatest enemy to mankind and he sits and waits at every point of our lives for the opportunity to lead us astray. HE IS YOUR ENEMY! Don't help your enemy defeat you by following him! So please be careful of what you do here in this life while passing through to our final abode because in the end all the songs you know, sport stats, movie titles and producers and nonsense; any of these worldly waste of times are not going to save you from the fire because at that time, you are only left with your deeds. So be VERY careful what you do here InshaAllaah.None of us are an exception to falling into these things, May Allaah protect us from falling into these things or anything that displeases Him And May Allaah place and/or keep us on a path that will lead us to Jennah, Aameen."
Allaah, The Exalted, states:
"And I (Allaah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)." (Noble Quran 51:56)
All of that being said, I plan on worshipping Allaah Alone and learning this Deen for the rest of my time passing through this dunya and my advice to you is to help and strive with me InshaAllaah.
May Allaah bless us all with beneficial knowledge, Aameen.
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Tuesday, August 14, 2012
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